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I am an Indian working in saudi arabia few months back i have sent an proposal to a girl to get marry i met her also and explained her about my intentions towards her i so the things was very clear which i made it to her like my salary my earnings and charity which i gave .like a family member i have been very transparent to her even a small thing also i had started to share with her eg: i thank Allah I prayed shukrana salah also celeberate her success with my friends by inviting them on dinners like she passed in her exams and helped many poor people and make dua to give ajr to her also ,she is very pious used to observed fast on monday and thursday so i gave charity on these days also .even a small thing i have shared with The reason i have shared evrythng with her is that coz i am interested to marry her and shown that i am capable of takingcare of her shes is a dentist even i have told her can do every possible thing for her career and i mean i have shared everything i have prayed and did tawafs a lot for her in haramshareef for her well being gud health and her studies ,, So rite now the she thinks i was showing off money to convince her to marry me she also thinks ia m a self praiser i told her i achieved success by struggle . Therefore i request you to please let me know my intentions by islamic point did i do wrong by sharing everythng with her and being very transparent Allah knows that i told everything true i am under mental stress and praying to Almighty very hard it is very difficult for me to move on by such allegations and also it is upto her to marry me or reject.Please guide me in this situation i am feeling very guilt by this ..going through a mental trauma she totally misunderstood me please advise she already rejected Alumdulillah i do not have any bad habits .. Waiting for your precious and valuable advise
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, is His Slave and Messenger.
We do not see that you have made a mistake when you spoke out frankly to your fiancée; rather, you should be praised for that as long as you intended good.
As for giving her the reward of some righteous deeds, then Muslim scholars held different opinions regarding that and most of them held the opinion that this is invalid.
Since the engagement was canceled, we advise you to look for another girl of those who are religiously committed and of good character, and do not be sad over that which has escaped you. Know that Allaah The Almighty is the One Who knows what is best for you. Allaah The Almighty says (what means): {But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allaah Knows, while you know not.} [Quran 2:216]
Allaah Knows best.
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