Husband requires sex daily

2-10-2002 | IslamWeb

Question:

I desire for sex includes oral sex on a daily bases. My wife does not cooperate in this. Is it possible for a woman to do sex with his husband once or twice a day? Does she have the stamina for that?

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Answer:

Praise be to Allah, the Lord of the World; and may His blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad and upon all his Family and Companions.

There is no objection for the man to make sex with his wife more than once in a day. In fact, the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam) had sex with all his wives in the same day. So, the husband can enjoy his wife whenever he wishes and the way he wishes provided he avoids the anus and the period of menstruation.
The woman should answer his desire and let him have intimate relations with her whenever he wishes. The Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam) said: "If a woman spends the night deserting her husband's bed (does not sleep with him), then the angels send their curses on her till she comes back (to her husband)" [Reported by Imams al-Bukhari and Muslim ]. The Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam) also said: "Even if he asks her while she is on the back of her seat (on a riding camel)" [ Ibn Majah ].
But this is only if this does not harm. If it harms her she has the right to refuse.
As for whether the woman can bear this or not, this differs from one woman to the other. But originally all of them can bear such acts.
Allah knows best.